18 Aug, 2010

The Kindness Of A Stranger

(From a radio interview - March, 2008) Julio Diaz has a daily routine. Every night, the 31-year-old social worker ends his hour-long subway commute to the Bronx one stop early, just so he can eat at his favorite diner.  But one night last month, as Diaz stepped off the No. 6 train and onto a nearly empty platform, his evening took an unexpected turn.  He was walking toward the stairs when a teenage boy approached and pulled out a knife.

"He wants my money, so I just gave him my wallet and told him, 'Here you go,'" Diaz says.

As the teen began to walk away, Diaz told him, "Hey, wait a minute. You forgot something. If you're going to be robbing people for the rest of the night, you might as well take my coat to keep you warm."

The would-be robber looked at his would-be victim, "like what's going on here?" Diaz says. "He asked me, 'Why are you doing this?'"

Diaz replied: "If you're willing to risk your freedom for a few dollars, then I guess you must really need the money. I mean, all I wanted to do was get dinner and if you really want to join me ... hey, you're more than welcome.

"You know, I just felt maybe he really needs help," Diaz says.  Diaz says he and the teen went into the diner and sat in a booth.

"The manager comes by, the dishwashers come by, the waiters come by to say hi," Diaz says. "The kid was like, 'You know everybody here. Do you own this place?'"

"No, I just eat here a lot," Diaz says he told the teen. "He says, 'But you're even nice to the dishwasher.'"

Diaz replied, "Well, haven't you been taught you should be nice to everybody?"

"Yea, but I didn't think people actually behaved that way," the teen said.

Diaz asked him what he wanted out of life. "He just had almost a sad face," Diaz says.  The teen couldn't answer Diaz — or he didn't want to.

When the bill arrived, Diaz told the teen, "Look, I guess you're going to have to pay for this bill 'cause you have my money and I can't pay for this. So if you give me my wallet back, I'll gladly treat you."

The teen "didn't even think about it" and returned the wallet, Diaz says. "I gave him $20 ... I figure maybe it'll help him. I don't know."  Diaz says he asked for something in return — the teen's knife — "and he gave it to me."

Afterward, when Diaz told his mother what happened, she said, "You're the type of kid that if someone asked you for the time, you gave them your watch."

"I figure, you know, if you treat people right, you can only hope that they treat you right. It's as simple as it gets in this complicated world."

Produced for Morning Edition by Michael Garofalo.
(Article and picture courtesy of www.npr.org)

Colossians 3:12-14

Therefore, as God's chosen people, holy and dearly loved, clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience.  Bear with each other and forgive whatever grievances you may have against one another.  Forgive as the Lord forgave you.  And over all these virtues put on love, which binds them all together in perfect unity. 

What does today's God's Story scripture teach us about showing kindness toward others?

In this chapter, Paul is writing to the people of Colosse about striving to live a holy life by putting to death the "old self" - the self that did not know God, His grace, His forgiveness, His Son.  While they are struggling with sins of their old nature, Paul challenges the Colossians to remember what Christ did in their own lives, reminding them that the grace the comes through Christ knows no boundaries: no color, culture, or economic status.  It's because of this Truth that Paul commands them to actively show compassion and kindness to all people, loving them just as Christ did.

Loving others, despite their actions and behavior toward you, simply because Christ loves them, is never easy.  I can't imagine how in the world Julio Diaz was able to love his attacker enough to show compassion and kindness in the midst of a mugging, but what a message it sent!  Such kindness permeated the young teen's heart and it changed him.  

How can we connect today's story and God's Story scripture to our lives?

When I think about the times that it has been the hardest to show kindness and love to someone, or to even listen to them long enough to consider showing any kind of compassion, it has been during the times that I have forgotten what Christ has done for me. In verse 12, Paul makes a point to say that because we are "God's chosen people, holy and dearly loved,"we must actively pursue "compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience."

- Make some time today to sit and think about all that God has saved you from, about the compassion He has shown (and continues to show) you.  Let it change you!  Praise Him for what He's done and thank Him for His grace.

- Ask God to help you to see others through His eyes and with His heart.

How can I connect today's story, God's Story scripture, and my story to others?

- Remember that everyone has a story and you may not know what is going on in the lives of those around you (even some of your closest friends).  Before making any assumptions about people, seek first to show them compassion and kindness, no matter how they may treat you.  

- Take the time to ask questions and really listen to people.  Listening is a great way to show love. 

- Share today's story with your friends and ask them if they could've acted the way Julio Diaz did, why/why not?  Share with them about the kindness and gentleness that Jesus showed those who attacked him throughout his life, especially nearing his crucifixion.  Use this opportunity to share about how Christ's grace and forgiveness for your actions has changed your life.

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