8 Mar, 2010

A Matter of Influence

JERUSALEM — Six years ago, when violence was the order of the day here, Elias Khoury’s 20-year-old son, George, was killed in a Palestinian terrorist attack. The Khourys are Palestinian, so the murder of George — who was out for a jog and shot from behind by gunmen in a car — produced an apology. Sorry, the killers said, we assumed the jogger was a Jew.

Elias Khoury and his wife, Rima, with a portrait of their son George, whose killing led him to an unlikely book project.Mr. Khoury was not only disconsolate, he was appalled. A prominent Jerusalem lawyer who often fights Israeli confiscations of land from Palestinians, he considered violence a toxin corroding his nation’s core.

So in memory of George, a charismatic law student and musician, Mr. Khoury did something that shocked many in his community. He paid for the translation into Arabic of the autobiography of Israel’s most prominent author and dove, Amos Oz.

The Arabic version of the book, “A Tale of Love and Darkness,” went on sale late last month in Beirut, Lebanon, where it has received positive commentary — notably by Abdo Wazen, cultural editor of the pan-Arab newspaper Al Hayat — as well as some angry reaction.

In explaining his decision, Mr. Khoury said that literature was an important bridge and that he had a specific goal in mind with this book, a point he includes in a preface to the translation.

“This book tells the history of the rebirth of the Jewish people,” he said as he sat in his law office. “We can learn from it how a people like the Jewish people emerged from the tragedy of the Holocaust and were able to reorganize themselves and build their country and become an independent people. If we can’t learn from that, we will not be able to do anything for our independence.”

Mr. Khoury is hardly a Zionist. His family’s land near Nazareth, about 750 acres, was seized by Israel “for security purposes,” he said, shortly after the creation of the state, bankrupting his family. Then, in 1975, [his father] was killed in a Palestinian terrorist attack in downtown Jerusalem when a bomb placed in a refrigerator killed 13 people. Elias Khoury was only feet away at the time.

Having lost his land to Israel and his father and son to Palestinians, Mr. Khoury is in a rare position to petition both sides to re-examine themselves. A Palestinian nationalist, fluent in Hebrew and English, Mr. Khoury said he believed that the Oz autobiography could be a vehicle to help Palestinians and other Arabs see the Jews in a different light.

Mr. Oz, who has come to know the Khoury family — Elias, his wife, Rima, and their two other children — through this project, said by telephone that their sponsorship of an Arabic translation of his book made him very emotional.

“This is the right book to travel into Arabic because it contains a non-heroic rendering of the birth of Israel and a description of Israel as a Jewish refugee camp,” he said. “Elias wants to build emotional bridges between our nations, and to do that you need to let each read the narrative of the other. Reading literature is like taking you into the bedroom of the other.”

Mr. Oz noted that in the book his father recalled how, as a youth in Europe, the walls were covered in graffiti saying “Jews, go to Palestine.” Then when he got here some years later, the walls carried the message “Jews, get out of Palestine.”

Mr. Oz added, “I am very eager for Arabs to read this to realize that Israel, just like Palestine, is a refugee camp.”

Read the full text of this story at nytimes.com.

Daniel 1:8 (ESV)

But Daniel resolved that he would not defile himself with the king’s food, or with the wine that he drank...

Daniel 1:17-20 (ESV)

As for these four youths, God gave them learning and skill in all literature and wisdom, and Daniel had understanding in all visions and dreams. At the end of the time, when the king had commanded that they should be brought in, the chief of the eunuchs brought them in before Nebuchadnezzar. And the king spoke with them, and among all of them none was found like Daniel, Hananiah, Mishael, and Azariah. Therefore they stood before the king. And in every matter of wisdom and understanding about which the king inquired of them, he found them ten times better than all the magicians and enchanters that were in all his kingdom.

Daniel 2:46-48 (ESV)

Then King Nebuchadnezzar fell upon his face and paid homage to Daniel, and commanded that an offering and incense be offered up to him. The king answered and said to Daniel, "Truly, your God is God of gods and Lord of kings, and a revealer of mysteries, for you have been able to reveal this mystery." Then the king gave Daniel high honors and many great gifts, and made him ruler over the whole province of Babylon and chief prefect over all the wise men of Babylon.

How should we use our influence?

In today's story above, we see a very real example of someone who is trying to "turn tragedy into triumph" by using his sorrow at the loss of his son and his influence as a wealthy lawyer to begin to bring about change in the world around him. Having lived all of his life surrounded by the violence and hatred of the conflict between Palestine and Jeruselem, losing pieces of himself to both parties in the conflict, Mr. Khoury has a unique perspective to the ongoing battle. Has he let any of this turn him into an angry, bitter militant for either side? No, instead he is using his own money and influence to try to get both sides talking to realize that they have much more in common than either party is willing to admit.

Like Mr. Khoury, Daniel and his friends refused to let themselves be defiled by their situation. They actively chose to do the work that was requested of them to the best of their ability not so that they would gain from it but so that God's glory could be revealed. It was their truthful nature, God-given wisdom and hard-working effort that got them promoted in King Nebuchadnezzar's staff, giving them great influence over the king and his kingdom. They remained faithful to God and He remained faithful to reveal Himself through them to the point that Nebuchadnezzar, the evil king of Babylon, fell on his face and declared their God to be the "God of gods and Lord of Kings."

Connecting My Story to God's Story

  • What kind of influence do you have in the lives of your friends? How much do they trust you and the insights you might have into their lives?
  • How do you use that influence to show your friends God's grace and mercy?
  • Have you thought about your "first impressions" that you make upon people — do they speak to God's influence in your life or could it use a little work like my own does?

Connecting Today's Story, My Story and God's Story With Others

  • Pray that God would help you find ways to positively influence your friends in your daily interactions.
  • Look for ways to serve your friends whether that be listening (not talking) in times of crisis or surprising them with their favorite Starbucks drink during first period.
  • Try to pull together a group of your friends for a community service project like serving in a soup kitchen or visiting a nursing home. Not only will they see Christ's influence in your life but it will give all of you a new perspective to a social problem plaguing our world.
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