31 Aug, 2011

Doom, Gloom and God (?)

 

 

Disaster strikes.

We just saw the east coast survive an earthquake followed by Hurricane Irene.

We are coming up on the 10th anniversary of September 11th and just passed the 6th anniversary of Hurricane Katrina.

When nature makes a mess of things, you start to hear and read things like the following headlines:

 

"God Is Punishing America for Abortion"

"Michele Bachmann Says Hurricane Irene And Earthquake Are Divine Warnings To Washington"

"Religious conservatives claim Katrina was God's omen, punishment for the United States"

"Hurricane Katrina: God's Punishment for a 'Wicked' City?"

"Operation Save America: 9/11 Was God's Punishment for Abortion"

 

What do these headlines say about God? 

 

Are these things true of Him?

 

How does it stand in opposition to what you know of Him?

 

What do quotes like this say to your friends who don’t know God?

 

How is that different from what you want them to know about Jesus?

 

How can you show them a different side of Jesus and help them make sense of these headlines?

 

From Shane Claiborne via The Huffington Post...

 "Do you think God sent Hurricane Irene?"a young man asked me with a curious look in his eyes that was as innocent as it was pensive.

As I heard the kid's question, my heart sunk, as I thought of all the rhetoric that has made God out to be a monster, or at least a punitive judge on a throne ready to zap folks with lightening bolts or hurricanes ... and who doesn't even have very good aim or accuracy with the wrath being dished out..."

 

John 3:16-17 (NIV) - For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life. For God did not send his Son into the world to condemn the world, but to save the world through him.

 

1 John 2:1-2 (NIV) - My dear children, I write this to you so that you will not sin. But if anybody does sin, we have an advocate with the Father—Jesus Christ, the Righteous One. He is the atoning sacrifice for our sins, and not only for ours but also for the sins of the whole world.

 

1 John 4:10 (MSG) - This is how God showed his love for us: God sent his only Son into the world so we might live through him. This is the kind of love we are talking about—not that we once upon a time loved God, but that he loved us and sent his Son as a sacrifice to clear away our sins and the damage they've done to our relationship with God. 

 

Romans 3:25-26 (MSG) - God sacrificed Jesus on the altar of the world to clear that world of sin. Having faith in him sets us in the clear. God decided on this course of action in full view of the public—to set the world in the clear with himself through the sacrifice of Jesus, finally taking care of the sins he had so patiently endured. This is not only clear, but it's now—this is current history! God sets things right. He also makes it possible for us to live in his rightness. 

 

Isaiah 53:4-6 (NIV)

Surely he took up our pain
   and bore our suffering,
yet we considered him punished by God,
   stricken by him, and afflicted.
But he was pierced for our transgressions,
   he was crushed for our iniquities;
the punishment that brought us peace was on him,
   and by his wounds we are healed.
We all, like sheep, have gone astray,
   each of us has turned to our own way;
and the LORD has laid on him
   the iniquity of us all. 

 

 

What do these passages say about Jesus? What is his desire for his creation?

 

How do these passages stand in opposition to the headlines listed above?

 

 

 

How would your relationship with God be different if we served a God like the one reflected in the headlines above?

 

In what ways are you thankful for the God we DO serve?

 

 

 

Who is the Jesus you want your friends to know?

 

How can you share him with your friends in the midst of all the lies being told about him?

 

How can you contradict these lies with the way you live your life and love others?

 

 

Our privilege is to reflect Jesus to our friends and to the world. Which Jesus are we reflecting? How will you go and share the real Jesus this week?

30 Aug, 2011

Extra Blessings

 

 

Yoandri Hernandez Garrido, a cuban man, is best known as "24," by those in his hometown (and, no, it has nothing to do with the tv show).  According to an article by the Associated Press, "[his] nickname comes from the six perfectly formed fingers on each of his hands and the six impeccable toes on each foot.

 

"Hernandez is proud of his extra digits and calls them a blessing, saying they set him apart and enable him to make a living by scrambling up palm trees to cut coconuts and posing for photographs in this eastern Cuban city popular with tourists. One traveler paid $10 for a picture with him, Hernandez said, a bonanza in a country with an average salary of just $20 a month.  "It's thanks to my 24 digits that I'm able to make a living, because I have no fixed job," Hernandez said.  Known as polydactyly, Hernandez's condition is relatively common, but it's rare for the extra digits to be so perfect. Anyone who glanced quickly at his hands would be hard-pressed to notice anything different unless they paused and started counting."

 

Hernandez is hopeful that his life will encourage other young people who are born with polydactyly, that they would see it as a blessing, rather than a curse.  "I think it's what God commanded," he said. "They shouldn't feel bad about anything, because I think it's one of the greatest blessings and they'll be happy in life." 

 

(See the whole story at Google News; picture courtesy of Google Images)

2 Thessalonians 1:11-12

With this in mind, we constantly pray for you, that our God may count you worthy of his calling, and that by his power he may fulfill every good purpose of yours and every act prompted by your faith.  We pray this so that the name of our Lord Jesus may be glorified in you, and you in him, according to the grace of our God and the Lord Jesus Christ. 

What God's Story scripture teach us about His purpose and plans?

It can be easy to look at things in our life with a narrow perspective - our problems and struggles are too personal to be able to look at them objectively and with purpose.  Yet, God's word tells us that there is a purpose in everything He does and a purpose for each one of us.  Ultimately, His purpose (and ours) is to bring Him glory.  If we are seeking Christ and striving to glorify Him with our lives (no matter what our situation), we need not worry about our future, or even why things are the way they are.  Instead, we can rest in the knowledge and promise that God's plans for us are perfect, that they are meant to prosper us and give us hope (Jer. 29:11).

How can I connect today's story and God's Story scripture to my life?

Have you ever found yourself with blinders on your eyes?  Is your perspective one in which you see yourself as the victim?  It's easy to feel sorry for ourselves when things don't go the way we think they should, or when God deals us something that we don't think is fair.  When you sense your attitude shifting toward this way of thinking, remember 2 Thess. 1:11-12 and the perspective of Yoandri Hernandez Garrido - look at your circumstances as a blessing, knowing that God has a plan and purpose and He wants to use it to glorify Himself, through your faith. 

How can I connect today's story, God's Story scripture, and my story to others?

It won't take long for you to look around and see people who feel like God's dealt them an unfair hand, especially if their circumstances are extreme, or permanent.  Do your best to encourage your friends and to help them see the bigger picture: that God could (we know that he does) have a plan/purpose in it all.  Tell your friend about today's story and the way Hernandez chose to use his circumstance for good, choosing to see his extra digits as a blessing instead of a curse.  Share Jer. 29:11 with them.  Be careful that your heart and intentions shine through and that you don't come across calloused or just looking to solve the problem.  Your friend needs someone to listen to him/her and someone who's willing to walk them through the long-haul, not just someone with answers. Pray that God would help your friend to see how He's at work and that He is in control.  

29 Aug, 2011

An Extremist for Love

 

We tend to honor the Rev. Martin Luther King Jr. we want to honor, not the Rev. Martin Luther King Jr. who actually existed.

We forget the King who at the time of his ministry was labeled an “extremist,” who explicitly called out “moderates” for urging African Americans to slow down their march to justice, who quite brilliantly used the American creed as a seedbed for searing criticisms of the United States as it existed.

That we have failed to live up to King’s calls for economic justice — a central commitment of his life’s work to which my colleague Eugene Robinson rightly called our attention — is one telltale sign of our tendency to hear King’s prophetic voice selectively. But selectively hearing him is better than not listening at all, as long as it doesn’t lead to a distortion of what he believed.

His “I Have a Dream” speech was an extended and impassioned essay on the American promise. The civil rights movement’s demands, he insisted, arose from American history’s own vows.

“When the architects of our republic wrote the magnificent words of the Constitution and the Declaration of Independence,” King proclaimed, “they were signing a promissory note to which every American was to fall heir. This note was a promise that all men, yes, black men as well as white men, would be guaranteed the ‘unalienable Rights’ of ‘Life, Liberty and the pursuit of Happiness.’ ”

One of the most dramatic moments in the speech came next. “It is obvious today that America has defaulted on this promissory note, insofar as her citizens of color are concerned,” King said. “Instead of honoring this sacred obligation, America has given the Negro people a bad check, a check which has come back marked ‘insufficient funds.’ ”

This is the wonderful paradox of King: A Christian preacher, he understood the value of rooting arguments in a tradition. But this did not make those arguments any less radical. His emphasis was on those words “insufficient funds,” on our sins against our own claims.

Anyone tempted to sanitize King into a go-along sort of guy should read his “Letter From Birmingham Jail,” from April 1963. It’s a sharp rebuke to a group of white ministers who criticized him as an outsider causing trouble and wanted him to back off his militancy.

“Injustice anywhere is a threat to justice everywhere,” King replied. “We are caught in an inescapable network of mutuality. . . . Anyone who lives inside the United States can never be considered an outsider anywhere within its bounds.” Yes, pleas for justice ought to be able to cross state lines.

King also declared himself “gravely disappointed with the white moderate” who, he feared, was “more devoted to ‘order’ than to justice.”

And recall King’s response to being accused of extremism. Though “initially disappointed at being categorized as an extremist,” he wrote, “as I continued to think about the matter I gradually gained a measure of satisfaction from the label.” Jesus, he said, was called “an extremist for love,” and Amos “an extremist for justice.” The issue was: “Will we be extremists for hate or for love? Will we be extremists for the preservation of injustice or for the extension of justice?”

We have rendered King safe so we can honor him. But we should honor him because he did not play it safe. He urged us to break loose from “the paralyzing chains of conformity.” Good advice in every generation — and hard advice, too.

story courtesy of - The Washington Post

photo courtesy of - google images

 

Amos 5:24 (NIV): “But let justice roll on like a river, righteousness like a never-failing stream!”

Isaiah 40:4-5 (KJV): “Every valley shall be exalted, and every mountain and hill shall be made low: and the crooked shall be made straight, and the rough places plain….”

What does today's God's Story teach us about Dr. King?

This past Sunday was the 48th anniversary of Dr. King's famous "I Have a Dream" speech.  If you've never watched the entire speech before, stop reading this and go watch it on Youtube!

The speech is packed with refrences to scripture, especially the radical ideas of a new society within the shell of the old envisioned by the Hebrew prophets.

Cornell West, a contemporary theologian, in reflecting on just how upside down the world of King and the Hebrew prophets might look, recently wrote in the New York Times:

"King’s response to our crisis can be put in one word: revolution. A revolution in our priorities, a re-evaluation of our values, a reinvigoration of our public life and a fundamental transformation of our way of thinking and living that promotes a transfer of power from oligarchs and plutocrats to everyday people and ordinary citizens."

What would it look like for you to live the dream of Amos, Isaiah, and Dr. King?

  • Watch the Dr. King "I Have a Dream" speech and make a note of all the refrences to scripture.  Try to find those in scripture and read them in context.
  • Come up with one concrete way that you can allow justice and reighteousness to "roll" in your life.
  • Ask a friend what comes to mind when they think of Dr. King.
  • Read the "Letter from the Birmingham Jail" with a friend and talk about it.

26 Aug, 2011

Preparing for the Storm

East coast braces for Irene

WILMINGTON, North Carolina (Reuters) - As North Carolina braced on Friday for a direct hit from Hurricane Irene, cities along the east coast were on alert and millions of beach goers cut short vacations to escape the powerful storm.

With more than 50 million people potentially in Irene's path, residents stocked up on food and water and worked to secure homes, vehicles and boats. States, cities, ports, oil refineries and nuclear plants scrambled to activate emergency plans.

"I filled my tank up with gas in case I need to leave in a hurry or something, and get a lot of food supplies, taking everything out of my yard ... anything that can fly into a window," said Patricia Stapleton of Newport, North Carolina.

Irene lashed the low-lying Bahamas on Thursday and was expected to hit North Carolina on Saturday before heading up the coast to New York and beyond.

Irene weakened slightly early on Friday -- to a Category 2 hurricane from a Category 3 on the five-step Saffir-Simpson scale -- but still was packing winds of up to 110 miles per hour (175 km per hour).

At 5 a.m. EDT, its center was about 420 miles south-southwest of Cape Hatteras, North Carolina.

"Some re-intensification is possible today and Irene is expected to be near the threshold between Category Two and Three as it reaches the North Carolina coast," the U.S. National Hurricane Center said.

Coastal evacuations were under way in North Carolina and were ordered for beach resorts in Virginia, Delaware and Maryland. Airlines began to cut flights at eastern airports, made plans to move aircraft from the region and encouraged travelers to consider postponing trips.

"All the major metropolitan areas along the northeast are going to be impacted," National Hurricane Center Director Bill Read told Reuters Insider. "Being a large hurricane, tropical storm-force winds will extend far inland."

Story and Photo courtesy of news.yahoo.com.

Matthew 7:24-27 (ESV)
Build Your House On The Rock
24 "Everyone then who hears these words of mine and does them will be like a wise man who built his house on the rock.
25 And the rain fell, and the floods came, and the winds blew and beat on that house, but it did not fall, because it had been founded on the rock.
26 And everyone who hears these words of mine and does not do them will be like a foolish man who built his house on the sand.
27 And the rain fell, and the floods came, and the winds blew and beat against that house, and it fell, and great was the fall of it."

What does today's Gods Story scripture teach us about preparing for the storms of life?

In today's scripture Jesus tells us that when we do what he tells us, that our foundation is solid and that the storms of life will not destroy us.  He also warns us that if we do not do what he tells us, that are foundation is weak and our "house" may crumble in a storm.  But what exactly has he told us to do? 

When Jesus said this to his followers he had just finished what is known as the "Sermon on the Mount."  Matthew dedicated three chapters of his Gospel on this message of Jesus.  Take some time to read that message this weekend to dig deeper into what Jesus is telling us.

How can I connect today's God's Story scripture to My Life?

  • Click Here to read the "Sermon on the Mount" on Biblegateway.com.
  • Are you experiencing a storm in your life right now? Build your life on the Rock of a relationship with Jesus.
  • Have you recently gone through a storm in your life? Thank God for getting you through that storm because of the foundation of your relationship with Jesus.
  • Does your life seem relatively calm right now? Thank God for His presence you your life as you continue to build your house on the Rock.

How can I connect Today's Story, My Story, and God's Story to Others?

  • Do you know someone who is experiencing a devastating storm in their life? Maybe a divorce in their family or the a death or serious illness of a loved one? Maybe the economy has hit a friend's family pretty hard? Maybe someone has moved into you school this year and feels very alone? Spend some time with them this week and allow Jesus to overflow from your life into theirs to bring them encouragement and hope.  Talk with them about the Foundation of your life.
  • When you are with others this weekend and you hear news stories about Irene talk with them about preparing for the storms of life by building on the Rock of Jesus.

25 Aug, 2011

How's Your Hospitality?

Waitress
 
Recently a friend of mine posted on Facebook:  A waitress at (a) Restaurant waited on us. She had just come from her break. She said, ‘I just waited on a table and they were so ugly; nothing pleased them.’ Then she said, ‘The reason I quit working on Sundays is because those mean & nasty demanding Church people come in here; and I guess they give all their money to God because they sure don't tip!’ Luckily, she did say to us, ‘It was a pleasure to wait on you; ya'll are nice!’ Whew!”

When others are waiting on us, it’s easy to be demanding, expect perfection, and want prompt and complete service no matter the circumstance.  I try hard to treat all service individuals with respect, manners, and how I want to be treated in the same situation.

I think it’s important that we go ‘above and beyond’ in our appreciation for those who serve others.  Jesus was the ultimate example of what it means to serve.  He served with a definite attitude!  An attitude of love.  Read what our verse today says about serving.

(Photo courtesy of barbeque4you.com)

God’s Story: 1 Peter 4:8-10 (NIV)
Above all, love each other deeply, because love covers over a multitude of sins.  Offer hospitality to one another without grumbling. Each of you should use whatever gift you have received to serve others, as faithful stewards of God’s grace in its various forms.

What does today’s God’s Story teach us?
It looks like we’re not to be so much expecting from others as we are to be serving others.  When we love, we serve.  We serve without grumbling.  Without complaining.  Without whining.  Without hestitation.  And we use whatever gifts God has given us to serve and to be a faithful steward (caretaker).

How can we connect today’s God’s Story to our lives?
We are currently on vacation in North Carolina visiting my husbands family.  We went out to eat Monday night and had a great meal.  Tuesday night we decided to go to the same restaurant because we really enjoyed the food. As we walked in, the waitress we had Monday night greeted us and said “Welcome back!” She even remembered our drink order.  We felt so at home!  It was amazing how she knew everything we wanted.  She had the gift of hospitality.  

But even if she didn’t remember my family or make us feel special, my responsibility to her, as a Christ follower, is to love her – and let her see Jesus in my life.   Through my actions.  My talk.  My interaction with her and others.  Even in my tip.

I’ve heard it said that the tip I leave reflects more on ME than it does on the wait staff.  How are you serving those who serve you?  Are you stingy with your appreciation?  Do you say thank you, please, and show them monetarily how you are grateful?

How can we connect today’s story, God’s Story scripture, and our story to others?
Reread the verse from today.

How can you be an example of hospitality to those you come in contact with today?

Here’s some ideas:
Pray for them
Respect them
Show your appreciation (through words, gestures, and affirmation)
Let the light of Jesus reflect in your life – so they see Him and not you – as you serve them in love!

And don’t forget to tip your waitress or waiter!

24 Aug, 2011

Break Out Your Map

 

 

 


 

Confessions of An Athiest...

"I think one of the most popular misconceptions about atheists is that we don't believe in anything, that our lives are void of spirit, belief and or any of the other things that theists think make the world go 'round.

You know what? It's just not true.

...I do not represent any particular way of thinking, other than my own. And as an "atheist," I can tell you this:

I pray.
I have faith.
I believe in the cosmic consciousness.
I live in gratitude.
I am moved to tears by the beauty that is nature.
I feel the intensity of great love.

I have faith in exactly that. I believe in the invisible and the intangible. I have absolute faith in the universe, in nature and in the balance of energy. My faith is unshakeable. I just don't have faith in the same power "name" as you."

(Dori Hartley - The Soulful Atheist, The Huffington Post)

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"Missions then is less about the transportation of God from one place to another and more about the identification of a God who is already there. It is almost as if being a a good missionary means having really good eyesight. Or maybe it means teaching people to use their eyes to see things that have always been there; they just didn't realize it. You see God where others don't. And then you point Him out. 

Perhaps we ought to replace the word missionary with tour guide, because we cannot show people something we haven't seen. 

...I would ask them if people in China and India and Chicago are eating and laughing and enjoying things and generally being held together? Because if they are, then Jesus, in a way that is difficult to fully articulate, is already present there.

So the issue isn't so much taking Jesus to people who don't have him, but going to a place and pointing out to the people there the creative, life-giving God who is already present in their midst."

- Rob Bell, Velvet Elvis

 

 

Acts 2

16 While Paul was waiting for them in Athens, he was greatly distressed to see that the city was full of idols...

22 Paul then stood up in the meeting of the Areopagus and said: “People of Athens! I see that in every way you are very religious. 23 For as I walked around and looked carefully at your objects of worship, I even found an altar with this inscription: TO AN UNKNOWN GOD. So you are ignorant of the very thing you worship—and this is what I am going to proclaim to you.

 24 “The God who made the world and everything in it is the Lord of heaven and earth and does not live in temples built by human hands. ...28 ‘For in him we live and move and have our being.’ As some of your own poets have said, ‘We are his offspring.’

 

 

So, Paul points out the Altar to the Unknown God and says, in a sense,

"Hey, I can tell you His name."

Paul's a tour guide.

He sees Jesus where others don't and he points Him out. 

He's teaching people to use their eyes to see WHO is behind what they have already seen and experienced.

All joy and beauty and enjoyment and love are from Jesus...regardless of whether you know Him or not.

One our our greatest privileges is to know the love of Jesus, and then to share it with others. To pass it on.

To point Him out.

 

 

Who are the people in your life who have helped you see Jesus in the every day?

 

Where and how have they helped you see Jesus?

 

How have they helped you learn to read the map? 

 

How have they helped you learn to share the map with others?

 

 

 

As you head back to school, think about the people God is placing around you in your classes, at lunch, on your sports team. Who is He asking you to invest in?

 

Jesus was already at work in their lives before you came onto the scene. 

As you get to know them better and invest in them, pay attention to how Jesus is at work in their lives.

How can you be a tour guide for them? How can you point Jesus out?

 

I challenge you to wake up each day and ask Jesus how you can be a tour guide that day.

You never know what or WHO you might help others discover!

23 Aug, 2011

A Hidden Oasis


(The Southmoreland Bed & Breakfast - nestled in the heart of downtown Kansas City, MO)

Nancy Miller Reichle and her husband Mark are co-owners of Southmoreland, a quaint bed-and-breakfast on the Country Club Plaza in Kansas City.

Several years ago they both left the corporate marketplace. "This is something that we decided to do simply because we wanted to work together. If we were going to work six days a week in the corporate world, why not work seven days a week in the bed-and-breakfast world and be together," says Nancy.


As innkeepers, Reichle says even through travel patterns have changed as consumers have tighter budgets, people still need to rejuvenate themselves.
 
"We want people to feel comfortable yet pampered. When people come here, sometimes people are really revved up after their work week," the innkeeper says. "You can tell the difference between somebody who's checked in on a Friday night after work and checked out on a Saturday -- they feel nice and calm. So what we try to provide people is a easy experience."
 
Reichle says that especially as travelers work longer hours to make ends meet, they
look for a more special lodging experience different from a standard hotel. "People can have a real urban experience, but we're in a little oasis," she says. "We're tucked away on a one-way street. It's very quiet -- people only use this street if they live on it."
 


With a busy bed-and-breakfast business, Reichle says their Christian faith keeps them grounded so they can continue to provide room in their inn for weary travelers.

(Article by Russ Jones - onenewsnow.com, picture courtesy of Google Images)

Matthew 11:28-30

"Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest.  Take my yoke up on you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls.  For my yoke is easy and my burden is light."

Psalm 62:1-2

My soul finds rest in God alone; my salvation comes from him.  He alone is my rock and my salvation; he is my fortress, I will never be shaken.

 

What does today's God's Story scripture teach us about where we can go to find rest?

With all of the chaos in the world - the neverending noise that comes with computers, television, iphones, Facebook updates, and twitter feeds - it's no wonder so many people today find themselves stressed out, depressed, and ovewhelmed with anxiety.  Of course, turning everything off for a day or two and hiding out at a Bed and Breakfast wouldn't hurt, but what Jesus wants us to know is that the only sure-fire way to find peace in your soul is to surrender yourself to him.  God, alone, understands what is waring at our soul and He, in His Sovereignty, is the only one who can change the heart and control our situation.  

How can we connect today's story and God's Story scripture to our lives?

Where do you turn when you're feeling tired and overwhelmed by life?  Is your first inclination to fall on your knees and seek your Heavenly Father?  Be honest.  Are you more likely to open your Bible or log-on to Facebook?  It's easy to distract ourselves for a couple of hours (or even a weekend) by something else, in an attempt to forget about what's burdening us, but without fail, our problems are sure to arise again.  Challenge yourself this week to fast from the things that offer only a temporary respit and endulge in that which promises to restore your soul:  God.  When you're tempted to try to get away from it all by turning on your computer or t.v., open the Word and ask God to speak to you.  Turn off the noise, open your ears, and pour out your heart.  Meditate on today's scripture and claim His promises.

How can I connect today's story, God's Story scripture, and my story to others?

If you know your friends, and have been a friend who listens, you probably know which friends are struggling to find peace in their circumstances.  For those you know who are weary, who just don't know where to go to deal with it all, be open and honest about your own times of stress.  What have you tried that has/hasn't worked in your life?  Share today's scripture and be ready to talk about what they mean to you.  Share how God has helped you deal with life and the peace you have experienced, because of Christ, even in the midst of crazy times.  Ask if you can pray for your friend - pray that he/she would surrender their struggles to Christ and that he/she would experience His peace.  Remember to check back periodically with your friend - keep praying for him and let him know that you haven't forgotten about what he's going through

22 Aug, 2011

See it rightly

Do You Suffer From Decision Fatigue?

Three men doing time in Israeli prisons recently appeared before a parole board consisting of a judge, a criminologist and a social worker. The three prisoners had completed at least two-thirds of their sentences, but the parole board granted freedom to only one of them. Guess which one:

Case 1 (heard at 8:50 a.m.): An Arab Israeli serving a 30-month sentence for fraud.

Case 2 (heard at 3:10 p.m.): A Jewish Israeli serving a 16-month sentence for assault.

Case 3 (heard at 4:25 p.m.): An Arab Israeli serving a 30-month sentence for fraud.

There was a pattern to the parole board’s decisions, but it wasn’t related to the men’s ethnic backgrounds, crimes or sentences. It was all about timing, as researchers discovered by analyzing more than 1,100 decisions over the course of a year. Judges, who would hear the prisoners’ appeals and then get advice from the other members of the board, approved parole in about a third of the cases, but the probability of being paroled fluctuated wildly throughout the day. Prisoners who appeared early in the morning received parole about 70 percent of the time, while those who appeared late in the day were paroled less than 10 percent of the time.

There was nothing malicious or even unusual about the judges’ behavior, the mental work of ruling on case after case, whatever the individual merits, wore them down. This sort of decision fatigue can make quarterbacks prone to dubious choices late in the game and C.F.O.’s prone to disastrous dalliances late in the evening. It routinely warps the judgment of everyone, executive and nonexecutive, rich and poor — in fact, it can take a special toll on the poor. Yet few people are even aware of it, and researchers are only beginning to understand why it happens and how to counteract it.

Decision fatigue helps explain why ordinarily sensible people get angry at colleagues and families, splurge on clothes, buy junk food at the supermarket and can’t resist the dealer’s offer to rustproof their new car. No matter how rational and high-minded you try to be, you can’t make decision after decision without paying a biological price. It’s different from ordinary physical fatigue — you’re not consciously aware of being tired — but you’re low on mental energy. The more choices you make throughout the day, the harder each one becomes for your brain, and eventually it looks for shortcuts, usually in either of two very different ways. One shortcut is to become reckless: to act impulsively instead of expending the energy to first think through the consequences. (Sure, tweet that photo! What could go wrong?) The other shortcut is the ultimate energy saver: do nothing. Instead of agonizing over decisions, avoid any choice. Ducking a decision often creates bigger problems in the long run, but for the moment, it eases the mental strain. You start to resist any change, any potentially risky move — like releasing a prisoner who might commit a crime. So the fatigued judge on a parole board takes the easy way out, and the prisoner keeps doing time.

photo & story (continued at) and courtesy of - The New York Times

 

Psalm 25:12 (NIV)

Who, then, are those who fear the LORD? He will instruct them in the ways they should choose.

What does today's God Story teach us about decision making?

Stanley Hauerwas, a theologian currently teaching at Duke Divinity School, teaches that that the first task of Christian ethics is to, "see the world rightly".

In other words, every decision we make throughout the day, if we are fatigued, energized, or otherwise, should follow from a "rightly" constructed view of the world.  Our allegiance to Christ and the Kingdom, our awareness of sin (both personal and communal), our understanding of God's radical grace, Jesus' teachings about love of neighbor and enemy, and the lives of the early Christians and saints, should all contribute to a picture of the world that approaches something "right".  Only after we know what kind of world we live in, can we act rightly in it.

Put simply, when we know where we are, we will know where to go.  Or as the Psalmist say, "fear the LORD", (see God and his creation rightly), and you will be directed in your ways.

God's Story gives us this foundational sense of where we are, what type of world we live in.  Even though you won't find a direct answer to every question you have in God's Story, (which job do I take, which school do I enroll in, what should I do about my relationship), what you will find is a picture of the world in all its beauty.  Embrace that picture, see the world rightly, and you will know what to do.

 

 

How can I connect God's Story to My Story?

  • As you read God's Story this week, make a list of ways to "see the world" based on what you are reading.  Share that list with your Campus Life Director or Youth Pastor.

How can I connect God's Story to Their Story?

  • Talk with a friend about "decision fatigue".  Ask them what guides and directs there decisions when they are worn out and tired.
  • Share with a friend how you "see the world rightly" based upon your connection to God's Story.

19 Aug, 2011

Trust Me!

Seems like former "Golden Girls" actress Betty White really does have the Midas touch.

White, 89, is both the most popular and most trusted celebrity with Americans and the person most likely to drive up the business of a brand she might choose to endorse, according to a poll released on Wednesday.

But the Reuters/Ipsos poll suggested that companies should stay away from Paris Hilton and Charlie Sheen if they want to promote their products.

The socialite and reality TV actress, and the fired "Two and A Half Men" star topped the list of the most unpopular and least trusted personalities and were deemed most likely to damage any brands they choose to support.

White, the only surviving member of the key cast members of TV's "Golden Girls" 1980s comedy, has enjoyed a career resurgence in the last few years as a saucy senior in films like "The Proposal" and the TV show "Hot in Cleveland".

She also won an Emmy Award last year for hosting satirical sketch show "Saturday Night Live".

White scored an 86 percent favorable opinion in the Reuters/Ipsos poll, beating Oscar winners Denzel Washington, Sandra Bullock and Clint Eastwood in the survey of the 100 most popular personalities. She easily edged out Britain's Duchess of Cambridge Kate Middleton (5th), Oprah Winfrey (6th), and U.S. first lady Michelle Obama (15th) in the most trusted personalities ranking.

Some 44 percent of those questioned said they would be more likely to do business with a company if White endorsed it.

At the other extreme, 54 percent of the 2,012 Americans questioned for the poll said they would trust a company less if it were endorsed by Sheen, with Hilton coming in second.

Pop star Britney Spears, actor Mel Gibson and golfer Tiger Woods -- who lost several major endorsements after his 2009 sex scandal -- also fared badly.

Below is a list of the top 10 most popular personalities with their "favorable" rating by percentage of voters.
1. Betty White ...........86 pct favorable
2. Denzel Washington .....85 pct
3. Sandra Bullock ........84 pct
4. Clint Eastwood ........83 pct
5. Tom Hanks .............81 pct
6. Harrison Ford .........80 pct 
7. (tie) Morgan Freeman ........79 pct  
7. (tie) Kate Middleton ........79 pct
9. Will Smith ............77 pct
10. Johnny Depp ...........76 pct

Full Story and Photo can be found at Reuters.com.

Psalm 9:9-11 (ESV)

 9The LORD is a stronghold for the oppressed,
   a stronghold in times of trouble.
10And those who know your name put their trust in you,
   for you, O LORD, have not forsaken those who seek you.

 11Sing praises to the LORD, who sits enthroned in Zion!
   Tell among the peoples his deeds!

What does today's God's Story scripture teach us about trusting in a name?

Do you ever wonder who you can trust? We may not have the concerns of a major corporation looking for a face for their product whom people will trust, but we do want to know that we can trust those around us. Sometimes, however, trusting others backfires on us and we get hurt. When that happens take some time to remember the words of Psalm 9, "And those who know your name put their trust in you, for you, O LORD, have not forsaken those who seek you." 

How can I connect today's God's Story scripture to My Life?

  • Thank God today for His promise to be trusted.
  • Click Here and take some time to read more verses from Psalms about trust on Biblegateway.com.

How can I connect Today's Story, My Story, and God's Story to Others?

  • Is there someone in your life whom your completely trust? Let them know that today.
  • Is there someone in your life who has confided in and trusts you completely? Spend some time with them this weekend talking about today's story and what it means to trust in God.
  • Is there someone in your life who struggles with trusting others? Share with them this weekend about the God in whom you put your trust. Maybe you could even read some of the verses from Psalms with them.

18 Aug, 2011

Tip of the Tongue

Tongue Surgery
Teen Has Tongue Surgically Lengthened to Speak Korean
 
A 19-year-old British student took her love for the Korean culture to new heights when she had her tongue surgically lengthened so she could speak the language better, the Telegraph reported.  Rhiannon Brooksbank–Jones underwent a procedure called a lingual frenectomy, which involves a surgeon either using a scalpel or a laser to remove the frenulum – the band of tissue that connects that tongue to the floor of the mouth.
 
The procedure, often performed on people who have an unusually thick, large or tight frenulum, only takes about 15 minutes and involves very little recovery time.  Rhiannon said she is pleased with the results, and now that her tongue is 1 centimeter longer, she said she is able to say words that were impossible before.
"The surgical procedure was my only option. My pronunciation was very 'foreign', but now I can speak with a native Korean accent," she said.

Story and photo courtesy of foxnews.com

God’s Story: 1 Corinthians 13
 If I speak in the tongues of men or of angels, but do not have love, I am only a resounding gong or a clanging cymbal. If I have the gift of prophecy and can fathom all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have a faith that can move mountains, but do not have love, I am nothing. If I give all I possess to the poor and give over my body to hardship that I may boast, but do not have love, I gain nothing.
Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.
Love never fails. But where there are prophecies, they will cease; where there are tongues, they will be stilled; where there is knowledge, it will pass away. For we know in part and we prophesy in part, but when completeness comes, what is in part disappears. When I was a child, I talked like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I put the ways of childhood behind me. For now we see only a reflection as in a mirror; then we shall see face to face. Now I know in part; then I shall know fully, even as I am fully known.  And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love.

What does today’s God’s Story teach us?
No matter what language we speak, the most important language is love – God’s love.  We can say the most beautiful things, but if our love isn’t showing through, or what we do isn’t motivated by love, it’s actually like an ugly clanging sound in the ears to whom we speak, and especially to God.

How can we connect today’s story, God’s Story scripture, and our story to others?
When someone speaks to you and it’s not in an attitude of love can you tell?  Do you think others can tell when you aren’t loving to them?  Our actions may speak louder than words, but our words do impact.  

Today, every time before you speak, think about your tone, your voice, your words.  Are you being loving and kind?  What are others hearing you say – is it a clanging cymbal?     

You don’t have to go to extreme medical procedures to begin speaking with love.  Pray and ask God to help you love others as you share your story and God’s story with friends.  His love can be right on the tip of your tongue!

17 Aug, 2011

Snooze Button Love

 

 
Snooze App Lets Users Donate To Charity By Oversleeping
 

(From the Huffington Post)

 "Giving has become increasingly effortless with text-to-donate and other click-of-a-button tools, but a new app has made donating even simpler. So simple, that you can do it in your sleep.

The alarm clock iPhone app, Snooze, allows you to pledge 25 cents to a nonprofit in the LetGive network just by hitting the button that lets you clock in extra minutes of sleep.

...The foolproof app lets you rest easy while it keeps tabs on your snoozes. Twice a month, you just have to choose where to donate them."

 

Wow...does anyone else think this is as sad as I do? Have we become this lazy? 

It begs the question...

Is giving really giving if there is no thought or effort behind it? 

Is serving really loving others if your heart is disengaged? 

 

If you're like me, you grew up in church being told what it looks like be a Christian. We were told all of the things we were "supposed" to do if we wanted to be like Jesus.

So...we grew up believing that being a Christian looked a certain way. The emphasis was on what we do...not the heart or motivation behind it.

We end up feeding the homeless and sharing Jesus and raking the neighbor's leaves and reading our Bible and praying because we are "supposed" to. We end up doing it out of obligation. Not because we want to, but because we SHOULD.

Is this REALLY what Jesus is asking of us? Is this really what it means to follow Him and love others? 

Shouldn't caring for others be more than just hitting the snooze button so we can go back to sleep?

 

"If I speak in the tongues of men or of angels, but do not have love, I am only a resounding gong or a clanging cymbal. If I have the gift of prophecy and can fathom all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have a faith that can move mountains, but do not have love, I am nothing. If I give all I possess to the poor and give over my body to hardship that I may boast, but do not have love, I gain nothing." - 1 Corinthians 13:1-3 (NIV)

"The way we know we've been transferred from death to life is that we love our brothers and sisters...This is how we've come to understand and experience love: Christ sacrificed his life for us. This is why we ought to live sacrificially for our fellow believers, and not just be out for ourselves...My dear children, let's not just talk about love; let's practice real love. This is the only way we'll know we're living truly, living in God's reality." - 1 John 3:14-19 (MSG)

 

Well, God sure answered our questions pretty clearly.

What does it mean to truly love and serve others according to these verses??

 

"Good" cannot be done apart from love. Love requires sacrifice. 

It is more than talk. 

It is an overflow of the love we receive from Jesus.

I'm pretty glad Jesus didn't hit His snooze button when it came to us!

 

Why is it impossible to love others without being connected to Jesus? 

 

How often do you do "the right thing" because it's what you're "supposed" to do?

 

How could this lead to burn-out, frustration or bitterness?

 

Doing things because we feel obligated is a quick way to get us to the end of our rope. There is no life in it. (If you find yourself here, spend some time talking to Jesus about it.)

If following Jesus is a to-do list, we will want to quit.

On the other hand, longing to pass on the love we have been given multiplies life!

 

Examine your motives for loving others. 

Are you loving more like the guy with the Iphone strapped to his forehead?

Or are you loving more like 1 Corinthians 13 and 1 John 3?

How does this change the way you will love your friends this week?

 

Don't become a frustrated follower of Jesus feeling like you can never live up to the expectation.

Abide in Jesus. Let His love motivate you to serve and share with others. 

Dear friends, let's not just talk about love...let's practice it!

16 Aug, 2011

Without Warning

 

When asked about the recent, tragic stage collapse at the Indiana State Fair, in Indianapolis, IN, fair spokesman, Andy Klotz, explains that everyone thought they had more time.  "The information we had, with our meteorologist on site with constant contact with the National Weather Service, was that we had about 30 more minutes before any kind of rain or storm blew in," said Klotz, in an interview with the CBS Early Show. 

An estimated 12,000 people were waiting for country duo, Sugarland, to take the stage when an announcement was made that a storm was impending, and the concert may be postponed.  Fair officials recommented individuals to take cover in nearby buildings but the evacuation was not yet mandatory.  Four minutes later, an unexpected wind gust hit, causing the stage riggings to shift and the entire unit to barrel down on the crowd below.  As of Monday, five people had died and 45 were sent to area hospitals, with injuries.

(Story courtesy of CBSnews.com, picture courtesy of Google Images)

Mark 13:32-37

But concerning that day or that hour, no one knows, not even the angels in heaven, nor the Son, but only the Father. Be on guard, keep awake. For you do not know when the time will come. It is like a man going on a journey, when he leaves home and puts his servants in charge, each with his work, and commands the doorkeeper to stay awake. Therefore stay awake—for you do not know when the master of the house will come, in the evening, or at midnight, or when the rooster crows, or in the morning — lest he come suddenly and find you asleep. And what I say to you I say to all: Stay awake.

What does today's God's Story scripture teach us about being prepared?

If there's one thing we know, as Christians, it is that God is coming back, and every day we are one day closer to His return! Praise His Glorious Name!  And, although people constantly try to figure out and make predictions about when our Lord will return, His Word is clear that no one knows.  Therefore, we must always be on our guard.  We must live, daily, in a way that is pleasing and glorifying to Him; as though He were coming today.  This passage gives us fair warning and we will have no excuse on that day that Jesus returns. Will you be found ready and waiting, or will you be caught off-guard, wishing and thinking that you had more time?

How can I connect today's story and God's Story scripture to my life?

- Take some time to consider the question:  Will you be found ready and waiting for Christ's return or, if Christ were to come back today, would you be wishing and thinking you had more time? Why?  What could you be doing that would better prepare you for Christ's return?

- The first step in being ready for Christ's return is having a relationship with Christ.  If you do not have a personal relationship with Christ and have never accepted Him as your Savior, what are you waiting for?  Seek out a Christian friend, youth leader, or Campus Life director and talk to him/her about what this means and how you can be sure that you're ready for Christ's return.

How can I connect today's story, God's Story scripture, and my story to others?

Talk to your friends about what happened at the State Fair in Indianapolis and how it would have impacted them (had they been there, or known someone who was a victim of the tragedy).  Would you/your friend have taken other precautions if you had been warned about the impending storm?  Share with your friend what the Bible says about the Second Coming of Christ.  God has told us in His Word that He is coming back and that our judgment is impending.  What could/should we be doing with that information?  Talk about it with your friend.  Is it likely that we will be like the fair officials, in the end, saying, "I thought I would've had more time?"

15 Aug, 2011

Gleaning the Harvest

 
ATLANTA — As she does every evening, Kelly Callahan walked her dogs through her East Atlanta neighborhood. As in many communities in a city with the 16th-highest foreclosure rate in the nation, there were plenty of empty, bank-owned properties for sale.  She noticed something else. Those forlorn yards were peppered with overgrown gardens and big fruit trees, all bulging with the kind of bounty that comes from the high heat and afternoon thunderstorms that have defined Atlanta’s summer.

So she began picking. First, there was a load of figs, which she intends to make into jam for a cafe that feeds homeless people. Then, for herself, she got five pounds of tomatoes, two kinds of squash and — the real prize — a Sugar Baby watermelon.

“I don’t think of it as stealing,” she said. “These things were planted by a person who was going to harvest them. That person no longer has the ability to. It’s not like the bank people who sit in their offices are going to come out here and pick figs.”

Of course, a police officer who catches her might not agree with Ms. Callahan’s legal assessment. And it would be a rare bank official who would sign off.

But as the world of urban fruit and vegetable harvesting grows, the boundaries around where to grow and pick produce are becoming more elastic.

Over the last few years, in cities from Oakland, Calif., to Clemson, S.C., well-intentioned foraging enthusiasts have mapped public fruit trees and organized picking parties. Volunteers descend on generous homeowners who are happy to share their bounty, sometimes getting a few jars of preserves in return.

There are government efforts to turn abandoned land into food, too. In Multnomah County, Ore., officials offer property that has been seized for back taxes to community and governmental organizations for gardens.

But with more and more properties in foreclosure and large stretches of vacant lots available in some cities, a new, guerrilla-style harvest is taking shape.

Robby Astrove works with Concrete Jungle, a fruit-foraging organization in Atlanta that in 2009 began building a database of untended fruit and nut trees on commercial and public land. The group donates most of the food to agencies that feed the hungry.

Although Mr. Astrove and his colleagues have harvested abandoned community gardens and he has planted pear and fig trees on empty commercial property, the organization cautions volunteers against trespassing and does not pick fruit on foreclosed properties.

Still, he thinks it is a great idea, especially for cities like Atlanta, where one in 50 homes is in foreclosure. Already, he said, there is an underground network among the homeless who work the gardens and trees around vacant homes, he said.
 
photo & story courtesy of - The New York Times 


Leviticus 19:9-10 (NIV)

When you reap the harvest of your land, do not reap to the very edges of your field or gather the gleanings of your harvest. Do not go over your vineyard a second time or pick up the grapes that have fallen. Leave them for the poor and the foreigner. I am the LORD your God.

What does God's Story teach us about gleaning?

God's Story is filled with examples of amazingly creative ways to allow the Kingdom of God to break into our world in all of its beauty and power.  One interesting example, inspired by today's news story, is "gleaning".  Simply put, gleaning is recognizing that because the land, rain, sun, bees, butterflies, manure, mulch, and all the other natural ingredients that make for an abundant harvest are all gifts to us from a loving Creator God, we should respond to those gifts by allowing our harvest to be a gift to someone else.  In other words, "freely we recieve, freely we give" (Matthew 10:8).

Where in your city is there a harvest to glean?  Where is God's abundant Kingdom growing wild, ripe for the picking, ready to be shared with those in need?  Where is there a field of grace for those mired in guilt and shame, where is there a storehouse of loving acceptance for the outcast, are there untapped reserves of compassion for the suffering just waiting to be unleased?

God's Kingdom is breaking into to our world in so many ways.  Our task is simply to find it and share it. 

How can I connect God's Story to My Story?

 

  • Look for one example of God's Kingdom growing wild in your community.  Talk with your youth pastor about how your church can help this wild expression of God's love for his children grow even more. 

 

How can I connect God's Story to Their Story?

 

  • Talk with a friend about today's story.  Share with them about gleaning and see what they think about the economics of the Kingdom of God.
  • Share something you have in abundance with a friend.  Allow someone to glean your harvest! 

 

12 Aug, 2011

Who Will You Choose?


The NFL Season has begun ... well at least the pre-season.

 
Many will be following their team. (GO COLTS!!)  Others will be following a different kind of team ... their "Fantasy Football Team."  Fatasy Football has changed the way many view the game.  They sign up on-line, draft their own team and compete against others in their own on-line league.  At the prompting of my own football player son, I have decided to dive into the world of Fatasy Football for the first time. I will watch the pre-season differently this year as I decide on whom I should choose for my own Fatasy Football Team.  I'm making a list this weekend as we prepare for our draft.

Photo courtesy of Yahoo.com.

Joshua 24:15
And if it is evil in your eyes to serve the LORD, choose this day whom you will serve, whether the gods your fathers served in the region beyond the River, or the gods of the Amorites in whose land you dwell. But as for me and my house, we will serve the LORD."

John 15:16
You did not choose me, but I chose you and appointed you that you should go and bear fruit and that your fruit should abide, so that whatever you ask the Father in my name, he may give it to you.

What does today's God's Story scripture teach us about choosing?
There are many verses throughout God's Story that refer to choosing, but the two listed above are perhaps the most often quoted.  Today's verses remind us of two very important aspects of choosing.
1) We are chosen by Jesus and invited to follow him.
2) Following and Serving Him in our life is our Choice.

How can I connect today's God's Story scripture to My Life?
Take some time this weekend to thank God for choosing you first by preparing the way for you to return to Him through a relationship with His Son.

How can I connect Today's Story, My Story, and God's Story to Others?

  • Choose 3-5 friends who do not know Jesus, and put them on a "Fantasy List" of sorts.
  • Commit to pray for those friends every day throughout this school year.
  • Look for ways that you might connect them to God's Story throughout the year.
  • Thank God for those connections when they happen.

11 Aug, 2011

Treasure Hunts

Yard Sale Sign
The best thing for me about summer are all the yard sales, garage sales, lawn sales, estate sales, rummage sales and tag sales.  (I hope I didn’t miss anything!)  I don’t know when I got bit by the bug, but I’ve been doing these weekend excursions around the neighborhood for as long as I can remember.

There’s something about these sales that is attractive for me.  You can find anything and everything!  I love unique items and great deals.  My kids and I will head out on Saturdays with the classified section in hand.  My son works the GPS so we can find the addresses and my daughter keeps an eye out for unexpected yard sale signs.  

I probably have never found anything extremely valuable, however it’s exciting to see what we can find.  My family calls me cheap (and I am).  I hate to spend money on something when I know I can get it cheaper.

But I know there’s more important things to seek and find……

PHOTO Courtesy of askmissa.com

God’s Story: Matthew 6:31-33
“Do not worry then, saying, ‘What will we eat?’ or ‘What will we drink?’ or ‘What will we wear for clothing?’ “For the Gentiles eagerly seek all these things; for your heavenly Father knows that you need all these things. “But seek first His kingdom and His righteousness, and all these things will be added to you.

We are reminded several times a day that we need food and water.  That comes naturally.  God knows what we need, even before we do.  However, He says that we should be concentrating on Him and His kingdom and righteousness first and foremost.

How can we connect today’s God’s Story to our lives?
No matter how much I love a great deal or making the rounds to find unexpected treasures, my priority must be seeking God and His will for my life.  I am lost without Him.  He has love letters (His Word) that He wants to share with me so I can get to know Him better.  

I can’t just spend time with him once a week or only for a season.  I must make him a priority – above all other things in my life.

How can we connect today’s story, God’s Story scripture, and our story to others?
As this weekend rolls around, what are your plans?  

Have you spent time in the Word and with the Lord?  Do you look forward to your alone time with Him.  If not, why?

Examine your life and where you focus your energy.  Ask the Lord to provide opportunities to share about Him to your friends in a natural and loving way.  Keep seeking after Him!  He’s the best treasure you can find.

10 Aug, 2011

Fork In The Road...

 

I moved this week.

In my exhausted, delirious haze, I reflect on all God has taught me in the process.

It was really one of those "fork in the road" kind of situations. Move far away or stay nearby? 

God, what are you asking? Where are you leading?

I was sure He was leading me to move far away, to a new job, a new city, a new town.

But no.

That door closed.

So, what now?

What do I make of this?

 
Now listen, you who say, “Today or tomorrow we will go to this or that city, spend a year there, carry on business and make money.” Why, you do not even know what will happen tomorrow. What is your life? You are a mist that appears for a little while and then vanishes. Instead, you ought to say, “If it is the Lord’s will, we will live and do this or that.” - James 4:13-15 (NIV)
 
 We can make our plans,
      but the Lord determines our steps.
- Proverbs 16:9 (NLT)
 

Like you've heard, we're living in a bigger story. God's story.

No matter how well we think we hear God and know what He wants, He will always surprise us.

We think we have it figured out. We think we know the hows and whys and whats...but no matter how well we think we listen, we are still shortsighted. 

Our task is not to figure out the end result or to anticipate the goal. Our role is to trust Him and be in relationship. To listen to the Holy Spirit.

When a door shuts, God does it for a reason. Because He has something else in mind. Often times, it's the last thing we expect...but knowing the God we serve, doesn't the unexpected speak so much more of Him than the expected?

What has God done in your life lately that didn't turn out how you expected? (Maybe you didn't get in to the college you were sure you'd go to. Maybe you didn't get the classes you wanted. Maybe you ended up in a class where you don't know anyone. Etc etc.)

 

What did you think? How did you feel?

 

 

 

Ultimately, God has the full picture and we see so very little of it.

I didn't move far away. Instead, I moved somewhere nearby. I still live in a new city and a new neighborhood, but I have the same job, the same friends, etc. Not what I expected. I was ready for a new adventure...a new life. Or maybe it's just that God's adventure for me doesn't look the same as the adventure I envisioned...and it's probably better!

Our role is not to figure out why God sends us down a different road than we anticipated. What we DO get to do is explore and step into the adventure!

Why might God have opened this chapter in your life?

 

How might this road speak more of Jesus than the road you were headed down?

 

 

 

The truth of the matter is...God opens doors for us partly for our sake, but mostly for His sake and the sake of others. Love God. Love others. When we follow Him, He will put us in the position to do just that!

SO, as you find yourself in an unexpected place, look around. Who do you see? Are there new neighbors to get to know? New classmates? Old friends you didn't think you'd see again?

 

Ask God WHO He wants you to see and love in this new place. Ask Him how you can reach out and serve them. Ask Him to help you take risks. Ask Him to help you step fully into this new and unexpected adventure. 

 

When God closes a door, there's always a reason. When God opens a door, there's always an opportunity.

An opportunity to love Him and love others better than you ever could on your own.

Welcome to a different road. Welcome to the adventure of following Jesus.

 

"Two roads diverged in a yellow wood,
And sorry I could not travel both
And be one traveller, long I stood
And looked down one as far as I could
To where it bent in the undergrowth;

Then took the other, as just as fair,
And having perhaps the better claim,
Because it was grassy and wanted wear;
Though as for that the passing there
Had worn them really about the same...

I shall be telling this with a sigh
Somewhere ages and ages hence:
Two roads diverged in a wood, and I--
I took the one less traveled by,
And that has made all the difference."

The Road Not Taken - Robert Frost

 

9 Aug, 2011

Back To School Blues?

Ahh . . . the first day of school: the time of awkward pictures on the front porch, new gym clothes, sack lunches, and prayers that you'll have a friend to sit with at lunch.  Whether you started school this week, or will be in the next few weeks, the reality is, summer has come to an end and your alarm will be going off way-too-early in the days to come!  Hopefully your first day back to school won't include one (or all!) of the following! 

Top Ten Signs Of A Kid Having A Bad First Day At School (or at least five of them...thanks to David Letterman):

....Already voted "Least Likely to Succeed."

....Lunch was whatever he could scrape off the bottom of his desk.

....His school bus driver made him ride on the outside of the bus.

....Got tackled twice in gym class--three times in algebra class.

....You know the kid everyone picks on? He got picked on by that kid.

photo courtesy images.google.com & text cbs.com/latenight 

John 3:1-7 (NLT)

1 There was a man named Nicodemus, a Jewish religious leader who was a Pharisee. 2 After dark one evening, he came to speak with Jesus. “Rabbi,” he said, “we all know that God has sent you to teach us. Your miraculous signs are evidence that God is with you.”

What does today's God's Story scripture teach us about being teachable?

Nicodemus was a Pharisee. Jesus often went after this group of religious leaders because they rejected the truth of His message and led the Jewish people away from His good news of forgiveness. Nic was probably nervous about what his peers would think if they knew he was hanging out with Jesus. So he went searching for Jesus after dark, because he believed that Jesus had the answers to his questions.

Nic was very intelligent and well educated, but he went to Jesus to be taught. He was teachable. That's the great lesson in today's God's Story.

Are you teachable? Do you go to Jesus with an open mind and heart so that His Spirit can teach you the Truth about God's Story?

After Nic learned the Truth, he became a follower of Jesus. No more sneaking around in the dark! Nic became a bold spokesperson for Christ! (See John 7:50-51.)

You might say that Nic had a really good first day at Jesus' school!

How can we connect today's God's Story scripture to our lives?

  • Be honest. Are you teachable? God already knows the answer to this question. Do you?
  • Pray right now.....Thank God for His Truth. His Truth is absolute and never changes! Ask Jesus to give you a teachable attitude so that you might learn God's Truths and grow to become more and more like Christ.
  • Write down a list of questions you have about God's Story and abiding in Christ. Keep it handy and keep digging in the Word until you discover Jesus' answers. Go to your youth leader or pastor or another follower of Jesus for help. (Do this during the day, because they need to sleep at night!)
  • Be like Nic - speak up for Christ and share His Story and your story. God will use you to help answer to the questions that others have about His Truth.
  • Read the rest of the story about Nic in John 3:1-21.

How can we connect today's story and God's Story scripture and our story to others?

  • Since today is probably the first day of school for most of you, ask Jesus to give you a teachable attitude toward God and toward others in your school. Remember that others will be more willing to learn about God's Story if they see that there's something positive about your story.
  • Use the start of the new school year as a conversation starter to learn more about the stories of others around you. You can start with simple questions about what they like and don't like and then you can probe deeper with questions about their feelings, their fears, their need for help in some way....
  • Use David Letterman's (five of the Top Ten) as a humorous way to find out some signs that your friends really are having a bad day at school. Be ready to be a friend and help.

8 Aug, 2011

Breakin' Up On Facebook?

 

Late last month, 200 teenagers from Boston-area schools gathered to discuss the minutia of Facebook breakup etiquette. Should you delete pictures of your ex after splitting up? Is it O.K. to unfriend your last girlfriend if you can’t stop looking at her profile? And is it ever ethically defensible to change your relationship status to single without first notifying the person whose heart you’re crushing?

These pressing adolescent questions were part of a one-day conference on “healthy breakups” sponsored by the Boston Public Health Commission. “No one talks to young people about this aspect of relationships,” Nicole Daley, one of the conference organizers, told me between breakout sessions as teenagers swarmed a nearby cotton-candy stand. “We’re here to change that.”

Minutes later, 15 high-school students on a sugar high convened for a session on “creating online boundaries.” The girls outnumbered the boys, and they didn’t hesitate to gang up on a charming — and, until then, immensely well liked — 17-year-old named Roberto, who proclaimed with a bit too much gusto that “racing to update your relationship status after a breakup” is a healthy behavior. That was just one of a handful of scenarios the teenagers debated and placed into “healthy” or “unhealthy” categories: others included “posting mean/embarrassing statuses about your ex” (unhealthy) and “rushing into a new ‘Facebook official’ relationship” (understandable, but still not healthy).

To help the youngsters envision what a healthy split might look like, pictures and videos of several celebrity couples who managed amicable breakups were projected onto a big screen. Justin Timberlake and Cameron Diaz, for example, were heralded as healthy because “they’re still friends and were able to co-star in a movie together.” Their parting was juxtaposed with those of Kanye West and Amber Rose (West wrote a mean song about her) and Sammi and Ronnie from “Jersey Shore” (Sammi supposedly defriended Ronnie’s friends on her Facebook page), who each exhibited the kind of “unhealthy” breakup behavior that the Boston Health Commission hopes Massachusetts young people will rise above.

photo & story courtesy of - The New York Times

Romans 12:18 (NIV)

If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone. 

What does today's God Story teach us about "breakin' up"?

Social media is a funny thing right?  Thanks to Facebook, Twitter, and other social media sites, we are in some strange way connected to almost everyone we know with a simple click of a button.  Strange right?  All you have to do is click a button and a screen illuminates with pics, info, quotes, jokes, stories, all giving you a picture of someone's life.  Yet there is something even stranger about social media when it becomes more than just a tool to open up communication, but becomes the medium that we use to communicate life shaping decisions.

The apostle Paul reminds us to "live at peace" with those around us, especially our brothers and sisters in Christ.  So the question for today is, does starting, maintaining, or ending a relationship via social media endanger this value?  Just like the leaders of the conference in Boston encouraged the high school kids to  "rise above" impulsive relationships decisions via social media, Paul is also encouraging us to do the hard work of building loving relationships in every situation.  Even when things get tough, don't hide behind a screen, don't rush into or out of something, have a conversation not a "post", use the power of eye contact, tone of voice, body language, and listening to maintain peace.   

How can I connect God's Story to My Story?

 

  • Pray for the strength to bring peace into a relationship that is currently in turmoil.
  • Track your social media habits this week.  Do you use it to avoid relational work? 

 

 

How can I connect God's Story to Their Story?

 

  • Ask a friend what they think about breaking up through social media.
  • Talk with a Christian friend about how they "maintain peace" with people.

 

4 Aug, 2011

Are You My Friend?

Today’s Story – Are you my friend??
Hugging Friends
 
Recently I attended church camp where I went each summer growing up.  I made lots of life time friends, but over the years I’ve lost touch with one person in particular.  I’d been thinking about Sue for quite awhile.  I haven’t been able to locate her on Face Book and no one I asked knew where she was or how to get in touch with her.

Last week, during my visit to the camp, I saw Sue from across the tabernacle (sanctuary).  After service I ran after her and followed her into the dark yelling her name.  When she turned, I lunged at her and gave her a huge bear hug.  I couldn’t believe I’d finally found her!

I kept hugging her and telling her that I’d missed her and was glad to finally get to see her.  She hugged back and said it was good to see me, too, but needed to get me in the light so she could see who I was.  After all, it had been several years.

As I finally saw her, I realized it wasn’t my friend at all, but another lady named Sue.  AWKWARD!  Making the best of the situation, I introduced myself, said it was nice to meet her and then gave her another hug.  (Why not?  She’d already suffered through an excruciating one.)

I decided to cut my embarrassment short and return to my family and friends still back inside the tabernacle.  As I got ready to share my story with them, I looked near the back and saw my real friend Sue.  I’m so glad God has a sense of humor!

Photo Courtesy of Lusterstudios.com   

God’s Story: John 15:14-15
14 You are my friends if you do what I command. 15 I no longer call you servants, because a servant does not know his master’s business. Instead, I have called you friends, for everything that I learned from my Father I have made known to you.

How’s your relationship with Christ?  Is He still your first love?  Do you spend time with Him or have you pretty much left His side this summer?  
Friends are there for each other.  Don’t get so wrapped up doing God’s work that you ignore God.  Embrace the friendship that you have with Jesus.  Stay connected to Him so you can recognize His voice, even in the dark times.

How can we connect today’s God’s Story to our lives?
I never have to worry about running after Jesus hoping He’ll remember me.  He pursues me!  He wants my relationship more than I could ever want His, but He still loves me as I am.  When I’m connected with Him, our relationship isn’t strained, distant or even forgotten.  There’s no worry about having to use a name tag with my Savior – He knows my name!  I am a friend of God’s!

How can we connect today’s story, God’s Story scripture, and our story to others?
Thank God for the friends that you have.  Think of those who may be lonely and needing friends and step up to the plate.  As you go back to school and reconnect with your classmates, share the love of Jesus with everyone through your words and actions.  By obeying God’s commands, you are showing them Jesus – the Best Friend anyone could ever have.

3 Aug, 2011

_______ of Men

 

 

"Fishermen may not like to reveal their favorite holes, but they're happy to lure others to the sport--one reason 13-year-old Michael Lipinski of Roseville, Michigan, is delighted to give casting lessons to children with traumatic brain injuries.

'I love being outside and fighting the bass,' says Michael, who's been fishing since he was a toddler. A winner of several casting competitions, he was approached by a therapeutic recreation specialist at Children's Hospital of Michigan. She suggested that Michael demonstrate his skill to her patients. 

After giving that first lesson in 2007, Michael was hooked. For his next birthday party, he asked his friends to give him rods, reels, hooks, and bobbers as presents, and he solicited more eqipment from local and national fishing clubs. Then he guided his charges on four fishing trips that summer, outings repeated each summer since as part of his Fishin' Mission program.

'Kids change after they fish,' says Michael. 'They might be quiet at first, but you can see the smile on their faces when they catch that first fish.'

The smiles come even on a bad day of fishing...'You know," muses Michael, 'you can really change someone's attitude in one day just by taking them fishing.'"

 

 

 

"Now as Jesus was walking by the Sea of Galilee, He saw two brothers, Simon who was called Peter, and Andrew his brother, casting a net into the sea; for they were fishermen. And He said to them, 'Follow Me, and I will make you fishers of men.' Immediately they left their nets and followed Him. Going on from there He saw two other brothers, James the son of Zebedee, and John his brother, in the boat with Zebedee their father, mending their nets; and He called them. Immediately they left the boat and their father, and followed Him." - Matthew 4:18-22

 

 
Notice that Jesus did not walk up to a musician, a chef, a tax collector, or a government official and say, "Follow me, and I will make you fishers of men." He walked up to FISHERMAN and said He would make them fishers of men. 
 
My guess is He would have walked up to a musician and said, "Follow me, and you will help others hear true music."
 
See...Jesus gives us each unique gifts for different reasons. He wants to use your gifts to draw people to Him!
 
Jesus knows we will be more passionate about following Him and loving others if we're able to do what we love in the process! We also get to trust that He will lead us to the people who will be most impacted by our gifts and our story!
 

 

Michael Lipinski learned at a young age that he not only loves fishing, but loves teaching people to fish!

Jesus doesn't call us to be fishers of men JUST to draw others to Him, but also so THEY might become fishers of men! 

Jesus has given you passions to help you share His love with others, so that they might be changed and ALSO share His love with others!

Many times we see others being effective in sharing Jesus and so we try to do it their way. When it doesn't work, we get frustrated and want to give up. But GUESS WHAT?? Jesus didn't create you to share Him like anyone else!! He built you in a unique way to love others the way only YOU can!

SO, what gifts has Jesus given you? What passions?

 

How might He want to use those gifts to draw others to Him? 

 

 

 

Now think of peers you know at school. Who might God be asking you to love? Write down their names. (They might share the same passions as you, but they may not! Either way, when they are loved by you in the way you best love, they will be impacted!)

 

 

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Think of a way you can tangibly love each of these people THIS WEEK by using your gifts and passions! Write your ideas below.

 

 

Use what you love to follow Jesus and love others with all you've got...

What are you passionate about?

Because Jesus is coming to you and saying,

"Follow me, and I will make you a _________ of men!"

2 Aug, 2011

Forever In Debt


(Image courtesy of Google Images)

Let's talk about debt.  I know, I know, I've had it up to here (motions hand above head) with the word, too, but we can't just ignore it because, well, it won't just go away.  We've grown up around it and it's become a part of our every day life, especially lately.  Debt crisis, debt ceiling, debt default (I feel a little like Forest Gump as he described Bubba Gump Shrimp:  boiled shrimp, BBQ shrimp, coconut shrimp . . . ); how many ways can we serve up debt??  Well, since we can't just "forgedaboudit" (insert thick New York accent), let's at least, for the time being, talk about debt in relation to something other than our nation's current crisis. 

Romans 13:8

Let no debt remain outstanding, except the continuing debt to love on another, for he who loves his fellowman has fulfilled the law.

According to Wikipedia, "a debt is that which one party, the debtor, owes to a second party, the creditor; usually this refers to assets owed, but the term can also be used metaphorically to cover moral obligations and other interactions not based on economic value."  There's no mistaking it, for God's Word is very clear on the issue of debt and being indebted to others:  we are to have no debt in our lives, except the debt of loving others.  How different would our country, our lives, and the lives of others be if we actually lived this out?!  The only way we will ever keep from becoming slaves to someone else is by becoming slaves to Christ, slaves to Love.  If you have accepted what Christ has credited you (forgivness through his blood) then you are and always will be indebted to him; it's a debt you will never be able to pay off.  

How can I connect today's story and God's Story scripture to my life? 

Ask yourself how you tend to view debt.  Is it something you're okay living with?  Do you approach debt like the rest of our country, thinking it's okay to just keep borrowing, knowing you'll probably never be able to repay the lender.  Or perhaps you feel okay about your debt because you're at least paying the minimum fee (even though you might be able to give more, if you really sacrificed some things).  How does this translate when you think about your debt of love to Christ?  Are you only making minimum "payments" or are you loving others, sacrificially?  Do you fully recognize just how much you've been credited and how much in debt you truly are, because of the blood of Christ?  What can you do differently to show Jesus how much you appreciate all he has given you, and what are some ways you can love others better?

How can I connect today's story, God's Story scripture, and my story to others? 

Luke 6:32 says, "If you love those who love you, what credit is that to you? For even sinners love those who love them."  God is calling us to love all men, not just our family and Christian friends.  He commands us to love all.  Who has God placed in your life, for such a time as this?  To whom is He calling you to love and show love?  As the issue of debt arises in your conversations with others this week (as it's bound to do!), share today's scripture with them and talk about what it would be like if none of us had any debt, except (because of Christ) the debt to love.  Finally, don't just talk about love, and don't do the bare minimum, find ways to actually show love (sacrifically - that means even when it's hard, or when it might hurt) to those in your life this week, and every week!

1 Aug, 2011

Get Green, Save Green

 
 
WASHINGTON — Like manna from heaven, thousands of dollars in new revenue is raining on a group of congregations here from the unlikeliest of sources: the utility bill. 
 
The windfall arose after 11 churches and a nonprofit youth group got together to solicit reduced-rate bids for electricity — most of it from renewable energy sources — from local suppliers. In the first year of its contract, which ends in May, the group expects combined savings of nearly $100,000. 
 
And more revenue is on the way: the group is planning to take a cut of those residential savings as a kind of eco-tithe.

“These are not the kinds of things that are taught at seminary,” said the Rev. Dr. Donna Claycomb Sokol, pastor of Mount Vernon Place United Methodist Church, which is joining the bulk purchasing this year. “How to save money with our energy — it’s innovative and exciting.”

With their cavernous sanctuaries, large meeting spaces and multi-use buildings often open day and night, churches, synagogues and other religious spaces are particularly clobbered by utility bills that can run into the thousands of dollars each month. Beyond dollars and cents, many congregations also consider environmental measures such as reducing  greenhouse gas emissions as part of their duty to care for God’s creation.

Many congregations already treat the environment as a fundamental part of their mission. Officials with Interfaith Power & Light, a network of religious institutions with affiliates in 38 states, said members are installing solar panels, undertaking energy-saving retrofits, buying green power, instilling a love for the earth in sermons and lobbying elected officials for clean energy alternatives.

“It’s about values and moral responsibility,” said the Rev. Canon Sally G. Bingham, the Episcopalian minister who founded the network in San Francisco in 2000 and has seen it grow to 14,000 members, with nearly half of them signing on in the last four years.

“Some are doing it for financial reasons, but most do it because of the devastating effects of pollution on poor people,” she said. “Every mainstream religion has a mandate to serve each other, especially the poor.”

The churches in Washington forged their alliance with help from the Washington Interfaith Network, which does community organizing for member congregations and is now receiving a 10 percent cut of the overall electricity savings. The other group that helped bring the churches together, the DC Project, is a nonprofit that promotes weatherization and green energy jobs.
 
story & photo courtesy of - The New York Times 

Psalm 24:1 (NIV)

The earth is the Lord's and everything in it.

The world, and all who live in it. 

What does today's God Story teach us about "green"?

How often do you think about "everything" in the earth, every last fiber of creation, being God's property?  It's hard to maintain that type of awareness right.  Some people seem to be able to maintain this perspective better than others, often we call these people "saints".  For example, Mother Teresa recognized that every poor and needy person on the streets of Kolkata belonged to God, and so she loved them like they belonged to God, with everything she had.

In Washington D.C. churches are coming together to try and paint an accurate picture of God's Creation.  To recognize that the earth is indeed the Lord's, it belongs to God, we are merely stewards, and are attempting to act according to this conviction.  In the process of doing what they feel is right, they are also saving money.  Money they are intending to spend on the realization of the more fundamental aspects of the gospel, like loving the poor and needy.

Here are some questions to think about:

What type of picture have we painted of creation?  

Who do we think the earth belongs to?

Do we act as stewards or consumers of God's creation?

What do we do when we "save" money?  Buy more stuff, or help more people? 

How can I connect today's God Story to My Story?

 

  • Use Psalm 24 as a prayer text.  Pray these powerful words to God and ask for God to re-paint your picture of creation.
  • Next time you "save" some money, however small, give that money away! 

 

How can I connect God's Story to Their Story?

 

  • Ask a friend what they think about caring for creation.  If they do it, why they do it, how they do it. 

 


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